Assisted Living: Sign Up Early, Visit Often!
Summary:Harriet signed up for a senior community years ago, and during that time there have been many changes for the positive, as evidenced by her frequent visits to the facility.
Author:Harriet Hodgson exclusively for Assisted Living Directory
Harriet is a contributor for Assisted Living Directory.
So what happens when a senior is not only unassertive about their health can care, but are to the point of being stubbornly nonchalant or indifferent? This is where their attitude, whether they realize it or not, can become unfair to everyone involved – especially family and loved ones.
Six years ago my husband and I signed up for a senior community owned and operated by Mayo Clinic. My father-in-law lived there and we thought it would suit us. We talked with the marketing manager, toured the high rise, and put down a deposit. Though we have many friends who live there, we hadnt been there for several years.
A year ago the former marketing manager retired and a new one took over his job. The new manager called us and asked us to come in and meet with her. During the meeting we learned many things had changed and for the better.
What are some of the changes?
Fees are one of them. More payment options are available and people can move into the community without a down payment. The fee schedule depends on the initial payment and the size of the apartment. Ever since we signed up we envisioned ourselves in a two bedroom apartment and we still do.
At the time, the number of two-bedroom units was limited. Now, they are plentiful and the square footage varies. The marketing director referred to a framed plan on the wall and showed us the floors where one-bedroom units were joined together to form a two-bedroom apartment.
The meal plan had also changed. Residents have more options than before and receive meal credits when they are out of town. While the credit doesnt cover the entire cost of a meal, at least it is money back. According to the marketing director, a few residents bypass the meal plan completely and cook all of their own meals.
We were really pleased to see the decorating changes. Before, all of the walls were painted an institutional tan. Residents had a choice of several tan carpet colors. Clearly, neutral was the name of the game. The bathrooms looked institutional. Today, residents can paint the walls any color they like, install wood floors, and the bathrooms have mosaic tile.
The appliances have been upgraded as well. Though the refrigerator, stove, and microwave are all white, thatfine with us. White goes with everything. Anywhere and everywhere possible, storage shelves had been added. “Were working on fitting washers and dryers into the apartments,” the marketing director commented.
When we walked in the door a newly decorated lobby greeted us. The first thing we saw was a three-dimensional mural of a tree. It was beautiful and, thanks to the texture of the bark and leaves, the white tree almost looked real. New chairs flanked either side of the mural and there were mini bouquets of flowers on all of the side tables.
Our visit to the retirement community, which also has assisted living and nursing care, convinced us of the wisdom of our decision. After we move out of our home this is the place we want to be. I will put my art training to use and decorate the apartment. “It’s going to be a gem,” I assured my husband.
If youve signed up for assisted living and havent visited in a while, I hope you will visit soon.
Like us, you may be amazed at the improvements. Visiting also helps you to envision yourself as part of the community. You get to know people, too. Assisted living is a community unto itself. My father-in-law always called it “home.” “
Copyright © 2013 by Harriet Hodgson
– Article by Harriet Hodgson exclusively for Assisted Living Directory
Responses to this article:
Dave B. Wrote:
I definitely believe that assisted living is losing it’s reputation, and stigma of the past, being associated with homogenous nursing homes with bland care, accommodations and food. I think it’s ok to actually look forward to it being sort of an extended vacation with almost a resort-like atmosphere.
1 May 2013 at 10:54 am
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